Re: Your other halves/partners/husbands/Wives
Originally Posted by
vickieford85
I am fairly new to the childminding game less than 6 months in but it is seriously having a bad effect on my marriage.
My husband really isn't coping with having children in the house all day. I don't really have a choice when it comes to the job, my husband works shifts since having our youngest child, we can't afford childcare however I need to bring in a wage to cover our bills.
How is everyone else other halves about it?
I can understand how both of you are feeling. It is a hard job to be doing in the house and if your dh is like mine then he wont understand that we cant do the housework when the children are there.
It has taken me nearly 4 years to get it througvh to my dh that I will not iron tidy the upstairs etc when I have mindees here.
We have finally come to a compromise I try and keep on top of everything and he pitches in to help when I ask but not to moan when I havent done something.
Couldnt you use the dining room instead of your dh so he gets to relax when he gets in from work. Not sure what time you work till but if he relaxed in the living room for say an hour while you did an activity would that make things easier.
Hope things improve and you can find a compromise.
When someone tells you nothing is impossible, tell them to go slam a revolving door
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