ok i have seriously had enough!!!
last week a 12 yr old child kicked my cat (she admited she did it, becsaue apparently my cat was attacking her feet which is rubbish as he would attack unless provoked!!) SO this happened on wednesday last week and all day thursday my cat charlie lay down all day and a few parents commented on how it was not like him not to say hello as he is a very people person cat.
anyway that thursday the child who kicked him was not in and i didnt think there was anything wrong with him until he moved off his bed wen my partner came in at 7pm and charlie was limping alot, which raised my concersn on friday morning wen the children came in i asked them if they had hurt charlie, she the older child said that he did it cos he was going to attack her, so i had 2 ring round the vets in the area and try 2 get him booked in, thankfully i managed it at framwellgate moor- anyway when the childs mother came to pick her up on the night time and i explained what had happened her mother started using rather abusive language to me wgilst another parent was leaving (the other parent came back in as she was concerned about the things that had been said) she humilated me called me a bad person a useless childminder and a greedy person. she was shouting at me and as she left my property she was shouting in turkish at her daughter refering to me. later that eveing oin the way to the vets her mother rang me demanding a meeting on monday afternoon i said that it would be fine but i wanted representation with me (she didnt want this and hung up the fone after telling me i was ignorant)
just as we arrived at the vets she rang again and said that i had put words into her daughters mouth!! i would never do this at all, she is 12 and can speak for herself! she was shouting so loud on the fone my partner could hear every word she was saying to me.
she then went on to tell me i mess her about constntly! i would love to know when as i bend over backwards fpr her and her child!!!!! some examples odf this are :
* i had kidney stones- was in agony i still looked after her as she couldnt find anyone else.
* i spent a fortune on taxis to get her to and from school when she went to primary schoola s she was instant on her coming to me and the school wasnt local to me.
* i looked after her child whilst she was in hospital for 3 days, i wshed her clothes, gave her dinner money and gave her a place to stay whilst her mother was in hospiutal.
* i worked weekends which made me ill
* when i first started childminding i never took any holidays the only day ofgf i i was for my bday and xmas day.
*her daughter sprained her ankle and she shouted at me rather abusively when i refused to not have her incase it made it worse.
*at comic relief this year her daughter went into school with no uniform on when she was nt ment to and got sent home, i helped her daugther get into the her house to get her uniform so she could go back to school (again no thank you or anything)
* i have had to cancel physiotherpy sessions and hospital appointments cos she cant get anyone 2 luk after her daughter.
i have bent over backwards and i have never had a word of thank you or kindness from her mother after all i have done for her!
i wont stand for her abuse any more! she told me on friday that my job is easy and that irts nt hard work,
sorry i just needed to get thjis off my chest
hope everyone hadd a nice weekend becasue i didnt was too worked uop cos of her and her mother.
OH and charlie will be fine he has some vey bad bruising on his leg
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