Re: really need advice...help!!
Take a breath -
I have had mindees who are very demanding and so has a cm friend of mine - it does usually pass but i sympathise with you whilst it is going on. Its normally a transition phase - i thi nk that although we do the settling in the child does know when things change and they are just fighting against it. Keep calm and try to do other things even if he is still moaning about not having you to himself. make it plain to him using body language that others will need your attention e.g. give another child a cuddle but still talk to him - then do it the other way around. Bring him into the room you are in whilst for example you wash the pots and make sure you complete your task even if he is moaning - then give him attention. Obviously you will know how far you can push things without upsetting him too much but beleive me it usually passes.
Sending hugs anyway to help you through
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