mum not happy what more can i do !!!

**sassy** · 28-01-2008, 05:17 PM

just had to ge this of my chest

well i drag myself out of bed at 6am
have 1 child dropped off at 6.40 am then go out to collect this child for 7am
then do every thing mum asks and more
mum asked if i can have her ready with coat shoes ect for 5pm collection
but mum is normally 10 mins early so i get shoes & coat on for 4.50
but tonight as child was not happy when mum picked her up,(and because she had shoes and coat on ready-you could just tell from the look on her face) she just grabbed her and went
just feeling a little like ...welli dn't know

now i have to get my flask ready, feed my two girls and be at collage all night

is it worth it ??

sorry but just having a long janurary

sassy x

**Banana** · 28-01-2008, 05:28 PM

hey Sassy

sorry i think i am mis reading your post... what was mum not happy about?

x

**angeldelight** · 28-01-2008, 05:28 PM

Poor you we all have days like it

Hope you are ok

Hugs to you

Angel xx

**Minnie Minx** · 28-01-2008, 05:38 PM

I think i've also misread it, why wasn't the mum happy?

Hugs to you hunny, i hope you have a nice night at college

xx

**angeldelight** · 28-01-2008, 05:40 PM

I think mom was not happy because sassy was waiting with her little girl all ready - maybe the mom thought sassy was a bit eager

All sassy was doing though was getting her ready like she had instucted - she is usually 10 min early too

Well thats what I thought maybe I am wrong ???

Confused me now ha

xx

**Minnie Minx** · 28-01-2008, 05:43 PM

oh right, sassy hunny i wouldn't worry about, we all have off days, sometimes you just can't win

xxx

**miffy** · 28-01-2008, 05:43 PM

Sorry you've had a bad day sassy

Hope college goes OK and tomorrow is a better day

Miffy xx

**sarah707** · 28-01-2008, 05:46 PM

I feel for you Sassy... I really do... and I know that look they give us... <<hugs>>

**chubbymummy** · 28-01-2008, 06:00 PM

BIG HUGS to you tomorrow is another day

Pipsqueak · 28-01-2008, 06:05 PM

poor you - I normally get my blue days on Wednesday.

Tomorrow is another day!!

**sassy** · 28-01-2008, 06:06 PM

big thankyou everyone for all your messages
mum was not happy as i had her ready & the fact that she was not very happy
but she had just not been happy for the whole afternoon...maybe mindee was having a bad day !!!!!

i had tried everything

got my flask ready..fed the girls....got my bag ready and now just awaiting hubby home and lift

catch up tomorrow

cheers x x

**miffy** · 28-01-2008, 06:11 PM

Perhaps mindee is sickening for something

Sometimes it doesn't matter what you do there is no pleasing parents or their children (oh dear sound as if I'm having a bad day)

Enjoy college

Miffy xx

Pipsqueak · 28-01-2008, 06:12 PM

So is Mum generally a person who is hard to please? (Sorry if I am not understanding correctly). It sounds like you have done everything asked of you and the mum is still not happy with it?

Could you not sit down and talk to mum about what they want and what you feel you can offer/go along with?

I know its hard when you have to pack straight up and go out for a course.

Have a good evening

**Banana** · 28-01-2008, 07:03 PM

Oh in that case Sassy - tell her to get over it!

You did nothing wrong!

Hope tomorrow is better for you

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

**Twinkles** · 28-01-2008, 07:09 PM

Maybe the mum had just had a bad day too. Not a good reason for being off with you but it might explain her mood. If mum has asked for child to be ready and you have done just that I don't see that there's any more you can do.

**Rubybubbles** · 28-01-2008, 08:18 PM

sounds like mum had had a bad day!

You did nothing wrong, I often get lo 2 ready about 4.50pm as mum sometimes early, and he messes around big time for his mum/dad, but takes 2 ticks with me