Baby sleeping arrangements

[Essbops]

So I have a baby that comes here and mum provided a rocker chair / baby seat for him to sleep in. Mum and dad have split and dad says letting him sleep in it is child abuse! Is it wrong to let them sleep in it? Am I supposed to provide a cot? It's got me worried now as I feel like piggy in the middle and don't fancy complaints cos dad criticises everything mum does. bad day..........

[moggy]

How old is the baby? It is not a long term nap solution as you have to be so careful about babies tipping themselves out of those baby bouncer chairs. I would check the instruction manual (look online, search the manufacturers website) as you may well find it says in there something about safety and sleeping in them- which would be an easy end to the discussion!
I would be happier with a baby in a cot- what if other children are around and poke the baby etc. If you do not want to use it I am sure you can find a simple 'sorry, it is not really possible here because of xxx, let's try a cot and see how baby does in there etc'

[FussyElmo]

I don't think its recommended that babies/children sleep in a baby seat but I may be mixing this up with a car seat.

[Essbops]

Hi guys thanks for the info. It's his old car seat that he likes to sleep in. I'm thinking a travel cot may be the solution. Do any of you get parents that argue

[TNT]

I agree with moggy, a baby seat is not a long term sleeping strategy. Once the baby is moving about and standing then they will try to get out of a seat. I would suggest to the parents that you want to start as you mean to go on and get them in a cot for naps.

[moggy]

Hi guys thanks for the info. It's his old car seat that he likes to sleep in. I'm thinking a travel cot may be the solution. Do any of you get parents that argue

If it is a car seat then a definite no no, there is a time-limit they should be in one even (see manufacturers recommendations), it is to do with the posture, lying flat is better for the baby's growth/spine development.

[greanan]

I use cots - babies should really d lying down to sleep. I'm sure there's warning about babies sleeping in car seats

[MessybutHappy]

Does baby have any reflux? If so, the baby will be more comfortable sleeping at closer to 45 degrees rather then flat, but this is better achieved by boosting a mattress or using a specially designed triangular pillow so the baby is lying flat rather than bent in the middle as in a car seat. It maybe that Mum has good reason, but perhaps isn't aware of the potential drawbacks?

[Essbops]

Thanks so much for this I'm going to go and buy a travel cot much better I think!

[serin]

they are about £25 in asda

[jadavi]

Ofsted prefer cots too.

[jackie 7]

Babies sleeping in car seats can be a risk in cot death. Their throat is scrunched up. I hate to see babies being pushed around in them.

[k-tots]

I have a mindee that will only go to sleep in her pushchair. ......tried cot etc but the only other thing she will sleep in is the carseat I take her out of the seat and lay her down in the pushchair. ...mums given me the go ahead......dont know what to do when ofsted come round :-/

[newbie]

All mine sleep in pushchairs downstairs. I used to use travel cots but suffer with a bad back so can't keep putting 2 of them up and down everyday . I must admit I worry about ofsted a opinion on this too!

[dawn100]

I use a combination of travel cots and pushchairs but my pushchairs all lie completely flat, I think Ofsted prefer cots but will tolerate lie flat pushchairs as sleeping for prolonged amounts of time not led flat can cause spinal problems.

[emily79]

I always use travel cots with extra mattresses in them to make them more comfy as they are basically laid on pieces of wood if you don't they need padding out if a child is older they have fold up mattresses I bought from online for baby with a cot sheet and blanket on but if a child falls asleep in a pushchair whilst we are out I don't move them I leave them until they wake.