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    Hi and happy Friday!
    As many of you will have seen I've not had the best of weeks this week and it almost got me and made me admit defeat as a childminder. Not anymore!
    I'm love my job and am good at it and I'll be dammned if anyone tries to threaten me into giving up what I love.
    I've decided that the parent who did not pay fees and threatened me with OFSTED may well have £90 of my money but she has revealed herself as a liar and a thief. I know I can sleep at night now, I don't know how she can.
    If I don't get it back at least I know I'm an honest person and have a clear conscious and, to me, that's worth far more than £90
    I'm so glad I found this forum and am SO grateful to every single person who gave me advice yesterday in what was a scary horrible time for me. I never thought id be feeling so positive so quickly again and it's thanks to knowing everyone was so kind and I had support here!
    You're all amazing!! I only hope I can offer the same good advice too and help another childminder in a bad situation to see there are solutions and to not give up
    I feel like I'm typing an oscars acceptance speech here lol so I'll wind up now, but thanks again! Off to have a long fun day out with the kids in the sunshine
    Kelly xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by kellyskidz! View Post
    Hi and happy Friday!
    As many of you will have seen I've not had the best of weeks this week and it almost got me and made me admit defeat as a childminder. Not anymore!
    I'm love my job and am good at it and I'll be dammned if anyone tries to threaten me into giving up what I love.
    I've decided that the parent who did not pay fees and threatened me with OFSTED may well have £90 of my money but she has revealed herself as a liar and a thief. I know I can sleep at night now, I don't know how she can.
    If I don't get it back at least I know I'm an honest person and have a clear conscious and, to me, that's worth far more than £90
    I'm so glad I found this forum and am SO grateful to every single person who gave me advice yesterday in what was a scary horrible time for me. I never thought id be feeling so positive so quickly again and it's thanks to knowing everyone was so kind and I had support here!
    You're all amazing!! I only hope I can offer the same good advice too and help another childminder in a bad situation to see there are solutions and to not give up
    I feel like I'm typing an oscars acceptance speech here lol so I'll wind up now, but thanks again! Off to have a long fun day out with the kids in the sunshine
    Glad you are more positive today!

    Onwards and upwards..... Have a fab day

    Wibble xxxxxx
    The bats have left the bell tower.....

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    I'm so glad you feel better today.It's a horrible, horrible thing when another person makes you feel the way you did.Remember-she was in the wrong not you.
    You sound like a fantastic childminder and the families that you care for are lucky people.
    The parent who let you down doesn't deserve you, and what goes around comes around-she'll get her just desserts one day.
    Have a great day with your mindees-keep smiling!

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    Glad you are feeling more positive.

    My friend has a 48hr theory. She says that no matter what life throws at you, 48hrs later you have got the initial upset/worry/shock/anger out of your system and can feel better/positive/ready to plan to move forward. (Even when her ex hubby asked for a divorce!)

    Well done you. You did it in 24 !-)

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    so glad you are feeling better
    enjoy your day

    cathy

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    Glad you are feeling lots better and really upbeat

    Sam x

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    so glad you are not going to let her get to you honey xx
    if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got

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    So great to hear you are feeling positive. What goes around comes around and one day she will be paid back in her own way.

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    Really good news that you are feeling so much better!

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    Karma is a wonderful thing !!

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    That's the way to be, don't let others pull you down, enjoy your fantastic job

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