Aggressive Behaviour

[kayz90]

Hi

I have a child i look after who has just turned 4 and is very aggressive to everyone and he is one of 4 in his family, yet he is a very loving boy but when it comes to giving cuddles and things that can still be done in such a aggressive way - even though he is trying to be nice.

He dosent seem to listen he is very loud (talking loudly, screams and shouts)

I try distracting, time outs, reward charts, taking things away (e.g sweetie day)

I don't know what else to do and it is rubbing off on my own child whom is normally a lovely girl

Would be grateful for some advise xxx

[blue bear]

Some children are just like that, lots of energy that lets itself as loud behaviour.
Make sure you give him time every day to let off steam in a safe way, so running around chasing a football, digging up mud, trips to the park etc.
Then make indoor time quiet zone with quiet indoor voices and more structured style activities. It's hard going because you need to keep loud children focused or they will be loud and over the top. But make sure lo gets plenty of time where it is fine to be loud.