sorry not been online for a few days so am probably bumping old threads but I anted to comment on this.

hugs *hugs* to you, what an awful parent to have. Like Sarah I also have a privacy/confidentiality policy and on there it says that if I feel confidentiality has been broken then I am in my rights to terminate the contract immediately with no notice, this also goes the other way for the parents too.

Really hope you get it sorted, more than anything else i'm sure you could do without the stree at the moment.