Hiya,
have just joined the group so totally new but I'm having a problem with one of my parents and I would like some advice on what other childminders would do.
I basically have 2 girls before and after school, 3 hours a day. Mum pays month in advance (i only require week in advance).
When she started in was a tuesday and I explained payment is in advance a full week so hers was a tuesday-tuesday basis. Always been that way, no problem.
She was disputing what my hols were/hol pay at the start of the month. I was explaining what was happening and why and she just piped up with she is overpaying me by a day as she paid 4 full weeks at the start but her girls started on the 2nd day of the week. I explained it was always tues-tues and that on her last wk she will only have 4 days to pay as the monday will already be paid.
She was texting me and emailing pretty much constantly all day on her last payday disputing this. She underpaid me by 1 days wage and then refused to discuss it further.
I sent a letter home with the girls explaining that I wasn't going to change my terms, that the days wage was still due but that as i only require week in advance, that I would give her to the friday the week before its due (23rd) to pay the remaining balance. This is the last day I have the girls then they break off for xmas. I asked her to get back to me on this.
She has just totally ignored me. She is in contact about other things but will not acknowledge this.
I don't really want it to just come to the 23rd, she breaks off on hols, doesn't pay me and then just doesn't return. My contract states if payment remains unpaid that contract will be automatically terminated with no notice so I have a feeling she will do this to be clever and not have to give me notice.
I dont want it to come to that as her girls are really easy to watch, I dont want to force the issue either, I want to remain professional. I would however like to know if they are going to return after xmas hols, I will worry about it all xmas hols if not. I feel I have been fair about this. She was off today and I have a feeling that she was off with the girls seeing a new childminder.
This woman has been pretty demanding and high maintenance in her wishes since the beginning and I am pretty stressed about it. What should my next steps be?
Thanks for anyone who made it through this!
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