Telling parents when their child reaches a milestone with you before the parent....
As a general rule I don't mention milestones to parents without them mentioning it first.
Things like when they first start crawling, first steps, first words ect.
I withhold this information until the parent mentions it because I feel that leaving your child with someone else is bad enough without feeling deflated when you collect and your child carer says 'x took their first steps today'.
Parent then goes away thinking great! I spend all day slogging away to pay the bills and now I've missed an important milestone.
This can lead to parents resenting their child carer and work.
I may say things like not long and we'll be chasing him around, wait till hes following you around repeating words like 'mummy' and 'why' or isn't it funny we spend the first few years encourage them to walk and talk and the rest to sit down and be quiet. This normally promp's the parent.
Plus if they do it in front of you chances are in a day or so they will do it in front of mum/dad ect.
Does anyone else do this?
x Tara x
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