No, you are not on your own.... it's too much what we're expected to do, all my parents want is for their children cared for and for them to be safe, happy and have fun... as long as we give children the best opportunities to have lots of life learning experiences then i think thats really the best we can do... we are not teachers, health visitors, social workers or child phychologists!! For example, my little 4 yr old came out of nursery yesterday and i had planned to do some "royal wedding" activities with him, but he looked really disapointed and said he had done "all that!" at nursery, " i would really like to go and play with the big digger in the sand!" he said to me! The thing is, why do children this age do half days at school?! because thats enough for them, they need the rest of the day for free play, or just doing life-learning things, shopping, gardening, cooking, watching tv, going to the park etc etc.... I had a mum come to me recently who said she had been looking for a cm for ages, and had even considered giving up work when she met me.... one of the first things she said was " oh, thank god your normal!!" she said she had been to see so many cms and that they were going on about the eyfs and this and that.... and she said , i just want my child to be in a normal home, doing regular things.... children learn most from just "living".... they are young enough when they start school to begin the formal stuff........
It never did us any harm!!!
sorry for babbling on, but..
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