samkeddy
09-03-2012, 01:01 PM
Hiya,
Again in need of advice:blush:
I have posted about this mindee before, i have cared for her for 2 years since she had just turned 2, mon-fri, 7.30-4.30
For those that remember, she is a madam, very grumpy and likes to have her own way, everyone reminded me what i allready knew, she craves attention due to 'bad parenting':( lack of attention at home!!!
So that was then, i was just going through a bad patch now were back to nomal.
This child has always enjoyed coming and has occasionally not wanted to go home but over the last few months this has increased ALOT, if i mention her leaving she gets really upset, we have genuine tears everyday just at the thought of going home, she tells me all the time that she loves me and will miss me, she draws me pictures at nursery and at home everyday (and none for mum) and when mum comes to pick her up she's telling her she doesnt want to go home, she cries, sulks and yesterday told her mum she didnt like her:panic: this mum is not the most loving/ maternal whatever but i can see its starting to bother her.
I really dont know how to deal with this????
Please help, i want mindee to enjoy been with me but if i was her mum this would be breaking my heart!!
I dont know what to do, im scared mum might just take her away to someone else if it carrys on jus cos it annoys her!
Please help:panic:
Again in need of advice:blush:
I have posted about this mindee before, i have cared for her for 2 years since she had just turned 2, mon-fri, 7.30-4.30
For those that remember, she is a madam, very grumpy and likes to have her own way, everyone reminded me what i allready knew, she craves attention due to 'bad parenting':( lack of attention at home!!!
So that was then, i was just going through a bad patch now were back to nomal.
This child has always enjoyed coming and has occasionally not wanted to go home but over the last few months this has increased ALOT, if i mention her leaving she gets really upset, we have genuine tears everyday just at the thought of going home, she tells me all the time that she loves me and will miss me, she draws me pictures at nursery and at home everyday (and none for mum) and when mum comes to pick her up she's telling her she doesnt want to go home, she cries, sulks and yesterday told her mum she didnt like her:panic: this mum is not the most loving/ maternal whatever but i can see its starting to bother her.
I really dont know how to deal with this????
Please help, i want mindee to enjoy been with me but if i was her mum this would be breaking my heart!!
I dont know what to do, im scared mum might just take her away to someone else if it carrys on jus cos it annoys her!
Please help:panic: