Bear23
03-03-2012, 09:06 AM
ok when started i worked crazy hours sometimes 12 shifts with a three year old, had another one on 7 to 2, then other days he was 2 till 9,i also had six or seven after schoolers so basically i was working all the time, now the money was good but back then i spent,spent, spent and have nothing to show for it really. And it was madness at tea times etc.
Now some left to go to high school, some just left and others over time changed hours.
Now i have perfect hours
i have a variation
i have three babies 9 till half two
one baby 8 till half four
One after school till six who just has a snack
So basically altho i am mega busy in the day, i have a life again, i'm not tired, i'm not stressed at tea time and i earn enough to cover bills, some treats etc.
But i've started to think about the future and maybe start saving but to do this i need to up my hours again, I've got a lady who wants 3 till 8,
Do i do it and then fill back up with the big ones?? or will i totally regret it??
Basically its a choice between having a great life now or thinking about the future,
Whats more important to you????
Now some left to go to high school, some just left and others over time changed hours.
Now i have perfect hours
i have a variation
i have three babies 9 till half two
one baby 8 till half four
One after school till six who just has a snack
So basically altho i am mega busy in the day, i have a life again, i'm not tired, i'm not stressed at tea time and i earn enough to cover bills, some treats etc.
But i've started to think about the future and maybe start saving but to do this i need to up my hours again, I've got a lady who wants 3 till 8,
Do i do it and then fill back up with the big ones?? or will i totally regret it??
Basically its a choice between having a great life now or thinking about the future,
Whats more important to you????