Demonjill
20-02-2012, 10:53 AM
Well I suppose it had to happen some time....
Today when my 2 mindees were dropped off - the younger one(4) was upset and a bit tearful!
Mum said he was feeling bit under weather but older brother(5) said (very quietly)it was because he didnt like it at my house:(
Thing is he always seems to enjoy what we do whether its freeplay or organised activities. Hes not really fussed about parks or the farm which ive not come across before.
I think the problem is that he is here himself for a few hours of the day so its just me and him and he finds that difficult as he is not used to this but he still seems ok
His behaviour is generally good and he can be very sweet, sometimes though he can be a bit cheeky and very stubborn which has happened twice - I usually give him a wee time out when this happens only a few minutes and then we are ok again no problems
I know I shouldnt feel bad but I do:(:(
He was fine when mum went and played happily with his brother and my son before nursery but im now dreading when i pick him up. I text mum to let her know he was fine as she had mentioned to this LO that she could ask his dad to pick him up earlier than usual :panic: but this is not the right thing to do as he may then start to use it to play up to get this all the time!!
Just really having a down moment and suppose im not sure how to deal with it :blush:im used to things being ok all the time ha
Next week should get easier as i have a LO starting doing 2 days that this boy is here so he will have someone to play with after nursery.
Sorry to moan :o but needed to "talk" to someone
Today when my 2 mindees were dropped off - the younger one(4) was upset and a bit tearful!
Mum said he was feeling bit under weather but older brother(5) said (very quietly)it was because he didnt like it at my house:(
Thing is he always seems to enjoy what we do whether its freeplay or organised activities. Hes not really fussed about parks or the farm which ive not come across before.
I think the problem is that he is here himself for a few hours of the day so its just me and him and he finds that difficult as he is not used to this but he still seems ok
His behaviour is generally good and he can be very sweet, sometimes though he can be a bit cheeky and very stubborn which has happened twice - I usually give him a wee time out when this happens only a few minutes and then we are ok again no problems
I know I shouldnt feel bad but I do:(:(
He was fine when mum went and played happily with his brother and my son before nursery but im now dreading when i pick him up. I text mum to let her know he was fine as she had mentioned to this LO that she could ask his dad to pick him up earlier than usual :panic: but this is not the right thing to do as he may then start to use it to play up to get this all the time!!
Just really having a down moment and suppose im not sure how to deal with it :blush:im used to things being ok all the time ha
Next week should get easier as i have a LO starting doing 2 days that this boy is here so he will have someone to play with after nursery.
Sorry to moan :o but needed to "talk" to someone