muffins
19-01-2012, 04:36 PM
Been minding/nannying for 14yrs but I now have a 15mth old (had since sept) that I just can't seem to bond with!:(
I just can't understand it! Never had this before! Has it happened to anyone else or am I losing my touch!
She is a little sweety but the bond just isn't there! She is well behaved, never has tantrums, enjoys anything, playing alone, with others, going out, staying in, arty bits and cuddles, not demanding at all! She also sleeps and eats well! Is a little sensative after being away for a short time, if on holiday or sick but id really the purfect mindee!:rolleyes:
Have thought about giving her parents notice as wonder if its right for her to be here but feel quilty about that really as there last childminder went on long term sick, I don't want her passed around! I don't let it get in the way & treat her the same to all the others, I do care about her, but I just can't bond!:(
I just can't understand it! Never had this before! Has it happened to anyone else or am I losing my touch!
She is a little sweety but the bond just isn't there! She is well behaved, never has tantrums, enjoys anything, playing alone, with others, going out, staying in, arty bits and cuddles, not demanding at all! She also sleeps and eats well! Is a little sensative after being away for a short time, if on holiday or sick but id really the purfect mindee!:rolleyes:
Have thought about giving her parents notice as wonder if its right for her to be here but feel quilty about that really as there last childminder went on long term sick, I don't want her passed around! I don't let it get in the way & treat her the same to all the others, I do care about her, but I just can't bond!:(