candy cat
09-09-2011, 01:11 PM
Hi folks I haven't been on for a while as life as been a tough few months (dad died a few weeks ago) Anyway got an issue ......On Tuesday mindee (who is always sent ill) came full up with cold.....quiet, but ok,( have issues as child refuses to drink):panic: tried everything but just screams until sick,(mum says don't worry) can't force her!
Dad picked up mentioned she had had no drink and he had a right go saying she is ill with a cold etc and you give her no fluids!? I said I am not in the habit of force feeding children :rolleyes: So I said well if you feel she's ill then keep her at home tomorrow and you can keep an eye on her fluid intake! he stopped shouting then:D
Wednesday mum turns up, mindee who normally runs in starts crying/screaming so mum picks up and says I don't think your well are you,youv'e been up all night coughing,temp etc......now what would all you lovely childminders say at this point? I looked up and said VERY NICELY 'well should she be here?' she shouted 'well i'll take her home then shall i!?' I said 'well if she is ill should she be here?' Well she just stormed off and skidded down the road in her car:panic:
Dad then phones having a go at me....I told him what was said and reckons she was just talking out loud when she said mindee had been ill in night. He tried to dictate to me things to which point I said enough and said good bye.
Mindee due back on Monday and i feel contact should be made before then by
mum as I am upset by it all and after all the heartache I have had over the last few weeks i just don't need it! This mindee took a year to settle and is still really hard work I had 8 hours screaming a day to start with and so much effort and hard work as been done by me. I feel so angry about it all. dad goes on about being professionals and have to work ...well so am i and i had to have time off a few months ago because i caught a bug from their child! They feel they should send child and leave me to decide if well enough to stay? They signed my sick policy and after last time every parent got a polite notice about sickness. I have always got on with mum.
what would you all do?
Dad picked up mentioned she had had no drink and he had a right go saying she is ill with a cold etc and you give her no fluids!? I said I am not in the habit of force feeding children :rolleyes: So I said well if you feel she's ill then keep her at home tomorrow and you can keep an eye on her fluid intake! he stopped shouting then:D
Wednesday mum turns up, mindee who normally runs in starts crying/screaming so mum picks up and says I don't think your well are you,youv'e been up all night coughing,temp etc......now what would all you lovely childminders say at this point? I looked up and said VERY NICELY 'well should she be here?' she shouted 'well i'll take her home then shall i!?' I said 'well if she is ill should she be here?' Well she just stormed off and skidded down the road in her car:panic:
Dad then phones having a go at me....I told him what was said and reckons she was just talking out loud when she said mindee had been ill in night. He tried to dictate to me things to which point I said enough and said good bye.
Mindee due back on Monday and i feel contact should be made before then by
mum as I am upset by it all and after all the heartache I have had over the last few weeks i just don't need it! This mindee took a year to settle and is still really hard work I had 8 hours screaming a day to start with and so much effort and hard work as been done by me. I feel so angry about it all. dad goes on about being professionals and have to work ...well so am i and i had to have time off a few months ago because i caught a bug from their child! They feel they should send child and leave me to decide if well enough to stay? They signed my sick policy and after last time every parent got a polite notice about sickness. I have always got on with mum.
what would you all do?