newandlearning
23-01-2011, 09:05 PM
hi all..
I'm wondering if someone could give me some advice.. there is one mum in the school play ground who I occasionally speak to on occasion .. I used to be in the same 'going out in eve's' group as her but am not these days as my own child doesn't really seem to get on with that set of kids..
anyways .. on Tuesday last week I was sending a text to one of my mindee's mums and walking towards what I thought was my car and this mum was talking to another by a silver car.. engrossed in texting I didn't realise it was her car and not mine ... so I jokingly said 'oh that's not my car at all is it.. where's mine gone?' .. and she said 'corrr.. I dunno wud you leave your kids with her'.. now although it could be in jest I felt that there was also a dig in her comment.. and then...
on Thursday my own lil boy was running around in the school play ground as we awaited my other child to get out of school when he fell and started to cry.. so I went to go get him.. and again she piped up 'I dunno .. shud have know it would be one of your kids!' :huh: :huh:
and I very nearly gave her a blasting as I just think she's having a dig.. or could it be she's got a very dry manner of being funny.. whichever way I'm getting niggled by her now and feel like she actually trying to indirecting say I'm incompetant or stupid.. of which I'm neither..
has anyone else had snide comments like this? I feel like pulling my kid out of this school as I find it very hard to make friends there and my lil one has only one friend who his teacher won't let him play with as they play to rough...
would you say something to this woman if she said something else again or just ignore her? :(
I'm wondering if someone could give me some advice.. there is one mum in the school play ground who I occasionally speak to on occasion .. I used to be in the same 'going out in eve's' group as her but am not these days as my own child doesn't really seem to get on with that set of kids..
anyways .. on Tuesday last week I was sending a text to one of my mindee's mums and walking towards what I thought was my car and this mum was talking to another by a silver car.. engrossed in texting I didn't realise it was her car and not mine ... so I jokingly said 'oh that's not my car at all is it.. where's mine gone?' .. and she said 'corrr.. I dunno wud you leave your kids with her'.. now although it could be in jest I felt that there was also a dig in her comment.. and then...
on Thursday my own lil boy was running around in the school play ground as we awaited my other child to get out of school when he fell and started to cry.. so I went to go get him.. and again she piped up 'I dunno .. shud have know it would be one of your kids!' :huh: :huh:
and I very nearly gave her a blasting as I just think she's having a dig.. or could it be she's got a very dry manner of being funny.. whichever way I'm getting niggled by her now and feel like she actually trying to indirecting say I'm incompetant or stupid.. of which I'm neither..
has anyone else had snide comments like this? I feel like pulling my kid out of this school as I find it very hard to make friends there and my lil one has only one friend who his teacher won't let him play with as they play to rough...
would you say something to this woman if she said something else again or just ignore her? :(