celdemorg
07-07-2010, 10:37 AM
I wonder if any of you have experienced this, my DS who get's on with all my mindees bar one. Now I've had this little mindee for over 12 months now, and at first I just thought it was my son trying to come to terms with me minding and just wanted me to himself. But after minding for over a year, there is one little girl he just generally doesn't get on, all they do is bicker, push each other, take toys if the other has them (they are only both 2) every day he says "No like *******" or "******** go home now". It's really starting to get me down a bit now :( . They do on the odd occasion get on, but is very rare. This mindee is my only really full time, all the others are part time, do you think that this could be why, maybe he sees too much of this one, and get's a break iyswim with the part timers??
If I have this mindee she is lovely when my son is at playgroup, and vice versa my ds is an :littleangel: with all the other mindees and when not with ******.
I think if the mindee wasn't my main income I would seriously think about ending the contract, but I really can't afford to, and it's not as though I've had loads of calls lately either, so a bit stuck in a rutt.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, as it's so hard seeing my son get upset as soon as she walks through the door (the other mindees he hugs)
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If I have this mindee she is lovely when my son is at playgroup, and vice versa my ds is an :littleangel: with all the other mindees and when not with ******.
I think if the mindee wasn't my main income I would seriously think about ending the contract, but I really can't afford to, and it's not as though I've had loads of calls lately either, so a bit stuck in a rutt.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, as it's so hard seeing my son get upset as soon as she walks through the door (the other mindees he hugs)
xxxxx