mammumof4
07-03-2010, 10:08 PM
ok i need to have a moan!! sorry, cant talk to my bf about this anymore as he is sick of hearing it!
i have a mum who is behind with her payments, every excuse you can emagine and is now waiting for tax credits to sort her money out, like its my fault
im 2 soft!!! now to top it off..........
had a family come to see me yesterday, after failing to turn up last week! i rushed around cleaning the house, sorting out paper work and toys ect, got a bit stressed with it all as i had my kids running around, moaning they are bored ect ect so i wasnt in the best of moods and was moaning at everyone not to make a mess, my bf snapped at me and said he doesnt know why i bother going to all this trouble for parents when they dont even pay on time, cant be bothered sending spare clothes, nappies, collect late, mess me around ect ect! this put me in a worse mood than before and we didnt talk to each other for 4 hours! not like us at all!!!! we have never argued or fell out in the 3 yrs we have been together so this has really upset me
anyway the parent then called to say they would be an hour and a half late!
by the time they turned up i had had enough, it was past my kids tea time and everyone was hungry, the child was also very grumpy as it was past her bed time and was very dirty from playing outside at grannys house! but i put on a smile anyway and got through the meeting "ok" and they signed for lo to start monday morn, dad was very carefull reading all the back pages of contract (NCMA) and got me to cross off the 4 weeks notice for end of contract holidays ect as he said it wasnt fair we didnt get to eat untill 9pm!
well i bet you can quess whats coming next! he just called, at 8pm tonight (sunday night) to say a friend has offered to look after the child all next week so wont need me after all and will call me towards the end of the week if he needs me next week!!! my weekend ruined for nothing, my kids and boyfriend upset over it!!! im so mad!!
i told him it would still be half fee to keep the childs place open and he said thats not fair! dont keep the place open then, i will call if i need you next week and see if you still have a place!!!! the ****** nerve! how can they mess me around like this????
sorry to go, im just sat here trying to find a reason not to ring ofsted tomorrow and resign my registration!
i have a mum who is behind with her payments, every excuse you can emagine and is now waiting for tax credits to sort her money out, like its my fault
im 2 soft!!! now to top it off..........
had a family come to see me yesterday, after failing to turn up last week! i rushed around cleaning the house, sorting out paper work and toys ect, got a bit stressed with it all as i had my kids running around, moaning they are bored ect ect so i wasnt in the best of moods and was moaning at everyone not to make a mess, my bf snapped at me and said he doesnt know why i bother going to all this trouble for parents when they dont even pay on time, cant be bothered sending spare clothes, nappies, collect late, mess me around ect ect! this put me in a worse mood than before and we didnt talk to each other for 4 hours! not like us at all!!!! we have never argued or fell out in the 3 yrs we have been together so this has really upset me
anyway the parent then called to say they would be an hour and a half late!
by the time they turned up i had had enough, it was past my kids tea time and everyone was hungry, the child was also very grumpy as it was past her bed time and was very dirty from playing outside at grannys house! but i put on a smile anyway and got through the meeting "ok" and they signed for lo to start monday morn, dad was very carefull reading all the back pages of contract (NCMA) and got me to cross off the 4 weeks notice for end of contract holidays ect as he said it wasnt fair we didnt get to eat untill 9pm!
well i bet you can quess whats coming next! he just called, at 8pm tonight (sunday night) to say a friend has offered to look after the child all next week so wont need me after all and will call me towards the end of the week if he needs me next week!!! my weekend ruined for nothing, my kids and boyfriend upset over it!!! im so mad!!
i told him it would still be half fee to keep the childs place open and he said thats not fair! dont keep the place open then, i will call if i need you next week and see if you still have a place!!!! the ****** nerve! how can they mess me around like this????
sorry to go, im just sat here trying to find a reason not to ring ofsted tomorrow and resign my registration!