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Jelly Baby
01-03-2010, 12:11 PM
Aaaaahhhh..have not had an enquiry for as long as i can remember..as some of you know i was given notice on my current mindee and lose her in 4 weeks so need the work!

The phone has just gone and a lady has enquired about a place with me..i need 9am till 3pm and knowing it is very hard to find that kind of dismiss anything that may come through but she says 'can you do 9-15am until 3pm..i was like 'perfect' and said yes that's ideal..she then started asking me about school runs and if i did them to which i said yes but wouldnt be with her child as i left at 3pm that was why it was perfect..she seemed pleased with this..going good..she then asked my fees..i was too buisy thinking about school runs and said £4-50 per hour to which she said ok and i jumped in saying 'sorry £4 sorry have school runs in my head now'..duh..she then said her dd was celiac and did i deal with it..i said i hadn't but would be quite willing to look into it and sit down with her..she went through her dd's routine of toast preperation etc which was good and seemed happy i would accomodate..said dh was a chef so had heard of it etc..all ok..then she said could she come see me next week..i said yes and to let me know when was best..i then politely asked what job she was doing as she had talked about shifts etc to which she really stammered and hesitated for ages..then she said she didnt wish to tell me..i said no problems but then felt really off for some reason..like id'e done something wrong..the fact i have only one child on a thursday i think she wasn't keen on and then said it may be a fri but wouldnt mess me about it would be set if agreed..i said ok but feel like her dd will be on her own for poss 2 days instead of 1..although we do go out lots and see other people!

So will she ring me won't she..i dont have a good feeling tbh and am so cross with me for getting so useless when it comes to sorting things out..ahhh would be perfect too..fingers crossed!

DIPPY DOUGHNUT
01-03-2010, 12:25 PM
ive got my fingers crossed for you

caz3007
01-03-2010, 12:29 PM
Lets hope she comes to visit, strange that she didnt say what she did as a job though, dont see why its a big secret, but hey people are funny

Jelly Baby
01-03-2010, 12:45 PM
Thanks guys..you know when you get a vibe with someone don't you and this just felt i dunno strange..but i can't afford for it to feel strange so must buck my ideas up!
When i asked her about the job she said 'err..errr.it's urm..well..actually id'e rather not say if that's ok' i said 'that's fine'! normally id'e wonder if it was someone testing like a new CM or something but i think this is a reccomendation from someone so will see. I always put myself down though as everyone in my town is after work and some of them will have probably dealt with coelics before so she will feel safer with them..despite me being very careful and accomodating..ahh well no point wondering we will see!
Thanks

Mollymop
01-03-2010, 12:58 PM
I have my fingers crossed but I am sure she'll come and see you, why not?
When she does come you can see what she is like then -

I don't see why she doesn't tell you what her job is, doesn't she realise that you are bound to find out sooner or later....

then you'll have to tell us!!:thumbsup: :clapping:

mamasheshe
01-03-2010, 01:00 PM
Lets hope she comes to visit, strange that she didnt say what she did as a job though, dont see why its a big secret, but hey people are funny

maybe she works for ofsted i don't think I'd admit that to a CM he he sorry really not making you feel better :blush:

ziggy
01-03-2010, 01:02 PM
good luck, hope it all works out for you

Jelly Baby
01-03-2010, 01:04 PM
maybe she works for ofsted i don't think I'd admit that to a CM he he sorry really not making you feel better :blush:

LOL probably knowing my luck!! oh god now you have me worrying probably over nothing!!

mamasheshe
01-03-2010, 01:15 PM
LOL probably knowing my luck!! oh god now you have me worrying probably over nothing!!

or maybe she's a 'secret agent' or a traffic warden ! xxxxxx

Jelly Baby
01-03-2010, 01:21 PM
or maybe she's a 'secret agent' or a traffic warden ! xxxxxx

Lol either of those are fine!! I am like this with EVERYONE who has ever rung me or taken a space..paranoid that they have an alterior motive but this one just seems weird due to the job..i wonder what it is that she can't tell me..tbh im really not that intersted was just being polite!!

Ripeberry
01-03-2010, 01:22 PM
Good luck, hope she visits you soon. Maybe she is a lady of the night? :D

youarewhatyoueat
01-03-2010, 01:25 PM
If she does come back, as a tip because of the coeliac disease ask them to supply all of the food as a pack lunch, only because so many foods have hidden gluten in them and if you start to supply it can get expensive, fruit etc is fair enough but don't forget the child gets free food on presciption.
It will make like easier to have a lunch box made up so you can still picnic without having to do everything seperately.
Also you will need a seperate bread board etc to prevent contamination.

Jelly Baby
01-03-2010, 01:34 PM
If she does come back, as a tip because of the coeliac disease ask them to supply all of the food as a pack lunch, only because so many foods have hidden gluten in them and if you start to supply it can get expensive, fruit etc is fair enough but don't forget the child gets free food on presciption.
It will make like easier to have a lunch box made up so you can still picnic without having to do everything seperately.
Also you will need a seperate bread board etc to prevent contamination.

Thanks for that..yes she told me she would provide food which is good..she explained how she grills the childs toast as cant use the toaster etc which again is fine as dont want her feeling left out. Also aside from expense it is easier if she has her food so there are no worries on giving the wrong things.
Thanks..lets hope i get the chance hey!

The Juggler
01-03-2010, 02:11 PM
maybe she is just paying you to have some 'me' time and was embarrased?? hope she calls back hon, sure she will.:thumbsup:

Minstrel
01-03-2010, 02:12 PM
maybe she's an escort ;)

Jelly Baby
01-03-2010, 02:18 PM
Lol at some of the replies! I think she does have a job as said she was going back part time and was awaiting confirmation on shifts..hmm who knows..i guess if she rings me back there is hope..she said the end of next week so we will see. I have another 2 poss lined up since this morning so fingers crossed even more!

WibbleWobble
01-03-2010, 02:46 PM
i think she works at the local STD clininc!:blush:

Maybe you should open a book on it (no money to change hands of course)


love mandy x

Jelly Baby
01-03-2010, 02:49 PM
Lol..poor woman!! she is either undercover for something and thinks i will blab?!, working somewhere embarrasing or not quite got he job and doesn't want to tempt fate..either way it is really bugging me!!