messyplay
10-02-2010, 11:32 AM
just wondered if anyone could give me some advice on how to handle unwanted behaviour. I care for brothers 4yrs and 2 1/2 yrs I have youngest one 4 hours every day but older one only once a week spends rest of week with grandma. youngest good as gold when mum not there soon as arrives kicks off empties toy box throws it, wont get ready to go. I feel really sorry for mum as i tell her what a good boy he has been for me. grandma doesnt have both boys together only when mum present so sees unruly behaviour, calls him evil. both boy are has bad as each other when mum pick up but older one knows how to wind his brother up. grandma thinks sun shines from older one. mum threatens but not always follows through, bribes older one by offering to buy things if hes good. they both say that mum cries when they naughty. can anyone suggest anything to help. I ve told mum she has to follow through if she threatens to take away privilages