Jelly Baby
08-02-2010, 11:40 AM
(Longish sorry)..Ok going back quite a few months one of my mums said to me she was thinking ahead to when her dd turned 3 and her free nursery places. She asked if i could have her instead as didnt want to use a nursery to which i said i didnt think so but she should ring round and find out. She decided a few weeks after that, that she didnt want to move her and she would be staying with me..great i was happy with that.
A few more months pass and come Jan i get back off holiday to have the origional conversation with her about nursery etc..i said again i was sure unless i was accredited that she would have to send her to nursery..on it went!
Last week especially i nagged as she is my only week child apart from a thursday and i wanted to know what was going on..she said she would fine out..
This morning i have had an assesment with a lady who i asked about it all..to cut short she said i can still keep the child if mum decides she doesnt want to send her..so that was good and when mum arrived a little while ago and said 'ill deff sort this nursery business out later' i jumped in saying well unless you have changed your mind..and explained what ide just been told.
Now you would think after all this time she had made her mind up but no..now she is saying she really wants to leave her with me still BUT have some of the nursery used..she thinks..she doesnt want to unsettle her though and has had 2 bad experiences with local nurseries so wasnt overly keen yet still wont give me a yes or no..grr..i have said i will look for a day job if she leaves as have no other kids so PLEASE make a decision!!
What would you do as will be around April time now she 'thinks'! do they not realsie this is our job and we need to know what is going on?!
Thanks
A few more months pass and come Jan i get back off holiday to have the origional conversation with her about nursery etc..i said again i was sure unless i was accredited that she would have to send her to nursery..on it went!
Last week especially i nagged as she is my only week child apart from a thursday and i wanted to know what was going on..she said she would fine out..
This morning i have had an assesment with a lady who i asked about it all..to cut short she said i can still keep the child if mum decides she doesnt want to send her..so that was good and when mum arrived a little while ago and said 'ill deff sort this nursery business out later' i jumped in saying well unless you have changed your mind..and explained what ide just been told.
Now you would think after all this time she had made her mind up but no..now she is saying she really wants to leave her with me still BUT have some of the nursery used..she thinks..she doesnt want to unsettle her though and has had 2 bad experiences with local nurseries so wasnt overly keen yet still wont give me a yes or no..grr..i have said i will look for a day job if she leaves as have no other kids so PLEASE make a decision!!
What would you do as will be around April time now she 'thinks'! do they not realsie this is our job and we need to know what is going on?!
Thanks