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this is tricky, I childmind for a friend and I am unable to stop her husband make
comments to my husband or ask me questions re job when we are out socially in the same pub. I want to give notice before it all gets too much and I am not sure how to word the letter. do i need to give a reason ? and how do you politly say your husband is a pain in the ass. and thats putting it politly.
Chatterbox Childcare
21-11-2009, 10:37 PM
I would carry on minding and if hubby starts that just don't answer the question.
Why should yuou give up when the mindee and you are happy
Can you not sit down with your friend and explain your anxieties and she can talk to her hubby
Pipsqueak
21-11-2009, 10:43 PM
I agree with Debbie, have you tried explaining how uncomfortable it makes you feel?
Perhaps the next time the conversation arises or even prempt it by saying ' ok 10 minute chat about work for all of us and then we all chill out'.
I think perhaps you need to tackle the situation first rather than just end the contract (especially if you are happy with the child) as I think that could spell the end of the friendship.
helenlc
21-11-2009, 10:46 PM
When you are out and he makes comments about your work say Do you mind - I dont want to talk shop on a night out!!
If this still doesnt work, then I would do as Debbie said and explain to your friend that its getting a little annoying. Say that you dont want it to affect your friendship or you looking after her LO but its getting a bit much and you would be grateful if her hubby refrained.
I have looked after a couple of friends children in the past and it can get quite awkward, especially if you socialise with them too.
But you shouldnt have to give up minding this LO or risk your friendship either.