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jaja
14-11-2009, 03:09 PM
My sef is driving me mad, i am basically crap at evaluate questions and get very confused and sat here in tears now:crying: :crying: I am doing the right thing?

I am writing "i encourage children in my care to follow..............."

Is this what they want to read? please help cause am in panic and crap at this, please please, please help....xxxxx

sarah707
14-11-2009, 03:26 PM
Keep asking yourself...

What is it like for a child here?

How do the things I do help / benefit / support the child?

For example...

I offer healthy meals... why do I offer healthy snacks / food etc? I offer them to help keep children healthy! What else do I do to keep children healthy...?

I do observations, assessments and planning for each child... why do I do observations, assessments and planning? I do it to make sure the child is learning and developing well when he is with me! What else do I do to support the child's learning and development...?

I keep children safe on outings by using buggies with straps / by doing regular outings risk assessments / by using reins for under 3s... why do I keep children safe on outings? What else do I do to keep children safe on outings?

Does that help? :D

jaja
14-11-2009, 03:36 PM
thankyou sarah, i feel that i am repeating myself, by saying i do this and i encourage that ect...

I think 6 hours is enough cause my head hurts so i am going to stop and chill out and maybe have a another go tomorrow or next week....

thankyou again xx

flora
14-11-2009, 03:45 PM
Take a deep breath and BREATHE sweetie :D

You are fab and you just have to put all the amazings things you do in :thumbsup:

Lots of people have said it is repetative, just include everything :thumbsup: even if it's twice.

TAKE A BREAK FOR TODAY AND COME BACK FRESH oops caps on.

Ring me if you need any help :thumbsup:

jaja
14-11-2009, 05:35 PM
Take a deep breath and BREATHE sweetie :D

You are fab and you just have to put all the amazings things you do in :thumbsup:

Lots of people have said it is repetative, just include everything :thumbsup: even if it's twice.

TAKE A BREAK FOR TODAY AND COME BACK FRESH oops caps on.

Ring me if you need any help :thumbsup:

Thank you, i think i am panicing cause i read on here everyone seemed to have done it and i didnt know anything about it, so now rushing it:blush: its just like the training passport:blush: i havent got one of those either:blush: having a crappy day, andy in a huff, kids getting on his nerves so i sticking up for kids and we are suppost to be going out tonight to a chairty thing for wish upon a star and i want to go to bed and sleep instead..... just having a crappy day, roll on tomorrow xxxx
P.S let me know about your birthday lunch, me, you, nice lunch, pudd and a girly chat up xxx

flora
14-11-2009, 05:40 PM
Thank you, i think i am panicing cause i read on here everyone seemed to have done it and i didnt know anything about it, so now rushing it:blush: its just like the training passport:blush: i havent got one of those either:blush: having a crappy day, andy in a huff, kids getting on his nerves so i sticking up for kids and we are suppost to be going out tonight to a chairty thing for wish upon a star and i want to go to bed and sleep instead..... just having a crappy day, roll on tomorrow xxxx
P.S let me know about your birthday lunch, me, you, nice lunch, pudd and a girly chat up xxx

If the kids are driving you mad bring them over here for a bit tomorrow???

You can get on in peace and they will be fine for a few hours :thumbsup:

As for the SEF. I still haven't done one and probably won't if I stop minding soon.

At the end of the day it is just paperwork, important, but just paperwork. So try not to stress.

Re birthday meal, I will let you know :thumbsup:

jaja
14-11-2009, 06:24 PM
If the kids are driving you mad bring them over here for a bit tomorrow???

You can get on in peace and they will be fine for a few hours :thumbsup:

As for the SEF. I still haven't done one and probably won't if I stop minding soon.

At the end of the day it is just paperwork, important, but just paperwork. So try not to stress.

Re birthday meal, I will let you know :thumbsup:

Sounds like a fantastic idea, will have to let you know if we going to pop in or not depends on whether my mum is coming over, she said she was but you know what mums are like, lol.... You carnt stop minding, id be lost without you, we need to find you kids soon!!!!! get your information together and we will see what we can do, i will put a link up on my website and plaster you all over caistor!!! and my car and everywhere.....lol..lol..
take care and talk soon xxxxxx