Adiamond
07-09-2009, 01:03 PM
Hi, I want to update you all on my situation with K's mum.... If you want to read the full thread the title is Grrrrrrrr parents (I don't know how to do links!!! :blush: )
Well on Friday mum never picked up K she sent her auntie 1/2 hour earlier than normal :eek:
mum text me later that night and asked if everything was ok and I told her that I am not doing the early mornings or long days anymore,I said they were too much for me and my family and K is constantly tired so cannot concentrate on anything for long and my hours of work are 8-6 Mon-Fri, she then said that what about if we drop to 1 day a week :mad: I said that I would still have to hold a full time place open for her and I am sure she wouldn't want to pay that much!!!!!!!
She then said what about if she gets someone to pick K up earlier :mad: I said no because it stills means the early mornings!!!!!
It got late so I just said see what you can sort out and text me over the weekend to let me know whats happening (I was having her today)
I never received any messages from her I text her yesterday and never got a reply so I thought I wouldn't be having her!!!
It was my birthday yesterday and did a bit too much celebrating LOL.
And guess who woke us all up at 6.30 this morning?:angry: I was soooo mad she rang me from outside and said "are you not having K today?"
I said that you never let me know and she said oh I assumed we were carrying on as normal until I got something sorted :eek:
I couldn't have made it any clearer to her that I am not doing the early mornings ANYMORE!!!!!
She has been ringing me but I can't face talking to her I feel so angry!!!
On the contract it does not state anywhere that I do 6.30am starts all I have written is "adhoc hours to be arranged weekly"
What shall I do now?????? x x x
Well on Friday mum never picked up K she sent her auntie 1/2 hour earlier than normal :eek:
mum text me later that night and asked if everything was ok and I told her that I am not doing the early mornings or long days anymore,I said they were too much for me and my family and K is constantly tired so cannot concentrate on anything for long and my hours of work are 8-6 Mon-Fri, she then said that what about if we drop to 1 day a week :mad: I said that I would still have to hold a full time place open for her and I am sure she wouldn't want to pay that much!!!!!!!
She then said what about if she gets someone to pick K up earlier :mad: I said no because it stills means the early mornings!!!!!
It got late so I just said see what you can sort out and text me over the weekend to let me know whats happening (I was having her today)
I never received any messages from her I text her yesterday and never got a reply so I thought I wouldn't be having her!!!
It was my birthday yesterday and did a bit too much celebrating LOL.
And guess who woke us all up at 6.30 this morning?:angry: I was soooo mad she rang me from outside and said "are you not having K today?"
I said that you never let me know and she said oh I assumed we were carrying on as normal until I got something sorted :eek:
I couldn't have made it any clearer to her that I am not doing the early mornings ANYMORE!!!!!
She has been ringing me but I can't face talking to her I feel so angry!!!
On the contract it does not state anywhere that I do 6.30am starts all I have written is "adhoc hours to be arranged weekly"
What shall I do now?????? x x x