gegele
26-08-2009, 10:23 AM
i have my first mindee, only child divordec parents.....overprotected probably doesn't cover it!!!!!!
anyhow she was with a childminder for 21/2 yrs, she starts school next week and old mindee doesn't do run to her school so she came to me.
she 's for ever bickering with my dd, starts game and once my dd join in she walks off, push dd's button so she react and i tell her off and mindee "enjoy" my dd being on the step and keep on wanting to be "the good one".
it's frustrating as i know what's happening but i can't get out of the circle!!!!
she's 5 and didn't even know how to wash her hands alone :eek: :eek:
realised in park toilet yesterday that she doesn't use paper:eek: :eek:
surely the childminder should have taught her that?? she's been with her full time since she was little toddler?
anyway my questions are:
do you think i could/should get in contact with old mindee to have details about kid?
how do you stop/reduce the bickering?
how am i going to not lose my mind next tuesday when on top of the arguing couple i'll have my 1yr ds and new mindee 8months old?????:o
:( :( it's so not how i imagined my childminding experience!!!!!!
anyhow she was with a childminder for 21/2 yrs, she starts school next week and old mindee doesn't do run to her school so she came to me.
she 's for ever bickering with my dd, starts game and once my dd join in she walks off, push dd's button so she react and i tell her off and mindee "enjoy" my dd being on the step and keep on wanting to be "the good one".
it's frustrating as i know what's happening but i can't get out of the circle!!!!
she's 5 and didn't even know how to wash her hands alone :eek: :eek:
realised in park toilet yesterday that she doesn't use paper:eek: :eek:
surely the childminder should have taught her that?? she's been with her full time since she was little toddler?
anyway my questions are:
do you think i could/should get in contact with old mindee to have details about kid?
how do you stop/reduce the bickering?
how am i going to not lose my mind next tuesday when on top of the arguing couple i'll have my 1yr ds and new mindee 8months old?????:o
:( :( it's so not how i imagined my childminding experience!!!!!!