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mozarella
29-07-2009, 02:29 PM
I am in shock, we were not really trying but i guess we werent careful enough, although it is a real shock

How will I cope, need more mindee to get by financially now with number 2 on the way no way people will want me once I start showing.

I know it is still early days but will never cope

ORKSIE
29-07-2009, 02:35 PM
Firstly, Congratulations.
Secondly, I'm sure it all seems very daunting at the moment, Things will look differently after it has completely sunk in. Try not to worry (easier said) sure all will be ok:)

carla
29-07-2009, 02:36 PM
Congrats.

You will cope fine honey.

I have 3 mindees and 2 of my own.
Lewis is now 8 months, I thought how the hell was i gonna cope, but you adapt,its fine- honest!!!!

Daddy Day Care
29-07-2009, 02:37 PM
Totaly agree with what Orksie has said (for a chnage)

Congratulations :D

Gareth
xx

Minstrel
29-07-2009, 02:38 PM
Congratulations! :thumbsup:

Its always a shock, even when your trying!

Give yourself a good two weeks to let it sink in and things will probably seem a lot clearer and exciting!

You'll be fine , honest :thumbsup:

LOOPYLISA
29-07-2009, 02:41 PM
CONGRATS :thumbsup:

I hope everything works out ok x

Tatjana
29-07-2009, 03:05 PM
:jump for joy: Congratulations!!! :jump for joy:

You lucky thing! :D

xx

Spangles
29-07-2009, 03:15 PM
Congratulations!

Don't panic, just take it easy and let yourself get used to the idea. Then you will be able to see everything much clearer and I'm sure it won't be as big a problem as you see it is now.

xx

Adiamond
29-07-2009, 03:16 PM
Congratulations :clapping: :clapping:

You will be fine, we all think we will never cope but we always do :) x x x

Pipsqueak
29-07-2009, 03:25 PM
:clapping: :jump for joy: Congratulations:thumbsup:

The Juggler
29-07-2009, 03:25 PM
congratulations! you'll be fine. just think how lucky you will be to be at home and stay at home with number one and number two.

People will want you. Never know you could pick up lots of temp work now then meet lots of mums' at ante-natal who will be looking for care at the same time you are planning to go back to work?

ps am over 40 and hubby has had snip but I am very jealous!

Demonjill
29-07-2009, 03:27 PM
CONGRATULATIONS:clapping: :clapping:

All will work out and you will be fine so dont worry!!

Blue Boy
29-07-2009, 04:36 PM
Congrats:thumbsup: I am sure everything will work out. You are a childminder and we can cope with anything thrown at us:panic:

Lots of Love to you and all your family

Mick xx

zillervalley
29-07-2009, 04:41 PM
congratulations you will be fine

ziller

chewy sweets
29-07-2009, 05:06 PM
Congratulations! :clapping:

nannymcflea
29-07-2009, 06:02 PM
Great news, congratulations.:D

Playmate
29-07-2009, 06:14 PM
Congrats :clapping: :clapping:

You'll be fine. I managed to recruit a new mindee when I was 5mths pregnant with no 2, was only taking 4wks off and they had holiday and family lined up to cover. I must admit I was a bit suprised they said yes at the time (especially as I had just become a single parent :( ) Just remain possitive and of course you will cope :laughing: :laughing:

Bitsy Beans
29-07-2009, 06:42 PM
Congrats!
Just get used to the idea before you start panicking. It will all work out in the end. CM's do get pregnant, it's not unheard of and they still seem to keep/get work at my local CM group so all is not lost. OK 12 months maternity leave might not be an option but don't assume it's all going to be a disaster.

PS. are you the Moz from a certain wedding website? (sorry if I appear stalkerish its not intended that way!)

sarah707
29-07-2009, 06:45 PM
I remember panicking exactly the same when I was pregnant with my second.

We had just come up to Knutsford and I was establishing my childminding ... it was so scary!

He's 13 now and you somehow cope. Congratulations :clapping:

mozarella
29-07-2009, 06:45 PM
bitsy bean: who are you ? yes am, but please dont say anything as I know people there who i dont want them to know

Tink
29-07-2009, 06:47 PM
CONGRATULATIONS. When i found out i was pregnant i was shocked too and thought how will i cope. My 90 year old grandma told me I was put on this earth as a woman and all women cope it's what were designed to do, and do you know what, she's right we all cope somehow.
Good luck though xxx

Bitsy Beans
29-07-2009, 06:48 PM
bitsy bean: who are you ? yes am, but please dont say anything as I know people there who i dont want them to know

I am Jenbo over there and no I won't tell anyone. Its not my news to tell anyway ;) You were pregnant the same time as me weren't you.

Twinkles
29-07-2009, 06:48 PM
I firmly believe these things happen when they are meant to happen , whether they were in your plans or not :rolleyes:

Things will work out for you, they always do. Just relax and enjoy. Congratulations :clapping:

mozarella
29-07-2009, 06:53 PM
I am Jenbo over there and no I won't tell anyone. Its not my news to tell anyway ;) You were pregnant the same time as me weren't you.

my son is 11 months old, so maybe, how funny to find each other here

Bitsy Beans
29-07-2009, 07:03 PM
my son is 11 months old, so maybe, how funny to find each other here

I remember I'd posted on there about becoming a CM and you mailed me as you were thinking about doing the same.
Small world and all that - honestly not stalking you ;)

My daughter is 12 months old and turned into a right demanding little madam!!!!

miffy
29-07-2009, 07:05 PM
Congratulations and don't worry, you'll cope! :)

Miffy xx

emler
29-07-2009, 07:06 PM
Congratulations :clapping: