Peppa
04-06-2009, 01:08 PM
Now this word I really don't like! I never said it b4 i started minding and sice I have M 2 1/2 i seem to ahve picked it up from him. He says it all the time, J is naughty, l is naughty, not naughty, daddy naughty mummy naughty!
I need help,
He came from another childminder who had two other boy mindees. Apparently he use to terrorise them. (I found this out after a while) They use to be scared of him, because some days he is like a bull in a china shop.
He lives with mum dad nanna and grandad. He is a bright little boy. Who is struggling to cope with his feeling and communicating.
He never tells me anything. like if hes hungry, tired, needs a wee, hurt,. Nothing he won't tell me nothing. I'm wondering if it is because of his home situation. They do everything for him and not give him a chance. If he want something he snatches and hits, if he's tired its the same. He will rather wee himself than tell you he needs a wee. He doesn't say if hes hurting just cries then goes off.
For the first time yesturday i had to put him on the naughty step (need a new name for it please as want rid of the naughty word!) he was jumping on my daughter who was screaming but wouldn't get off. I explained calmly why he was there and how long he was staying there and he did it brilliantly. I spoke to him afterwards why are you here? what did you do? what do we say? All the reight answers. Then we hugged, all fine. But he wouldn't move off the step. He started to cry and say m naughty, m naughty, I said no m all finished. and gave him a hug explaining he sat in time out beautifully. and how We are going to have tea and play, but he didn't want to move. I left him for a couple of mins to see if he could help himself. I then went back and asked him to come off the step as we had finished with the step and we are going to have tea.
All was fine after that.
Mum phoned me today saying he doesn't was to go to pre school and what shall she do. He was shouting off to donnas no pre school. I said i'm out at the mo i will meet you there if you have trouble getting him settled. she said no, but i met them anyway as mum had to rush off to work and I didn't want m distressed at pre school. He settled fine and i reasurred him that i would pick him up.
mum said that this morning he was jumping on the bed and she said get off the bed and he stopped and lip quivered and started saying m naughty m naughty.
I told mum that the naughty word has to go. He uses it all the time. He gets it from somewhere. when he gets collected dad says has he been naughty! liek first thing he says.
If M eats a healthy meal and is good dad says well thats unusual, don't know whats wrong with him.
Well got some stickers today and was gonna make some behaviour charts, (My son keeps wetting the bed) thought I might make mindee one, what do yyou all think.? Sorry to rush mindee about to wake up.
I need help,
He came from another childminder who had two other boy mindees. Apparently he use to terrorise them. (I found this out after a while) They use to be scared of him, because some days he is like a bull in a china shop.
He lives with mum dad nanna and grandad. He is a bright little boy. Who is struggling to cope with his feeling and communicating.
He never tells me anything. like if hes hungry, tired, needs a wee, hurt,. Nothing he won't tell me nothing. I'm wondering if it is because of his home situation. They do everything for him and not give him a chance. If he want something he snatches and hits, if he's tired its the same. He will rather wee himself than tell you he needs a wee. He doesn't say if hes hurting just cries then goes off.
For the first time yesturday i had to put him on the naughty step (need a new name for it please as want rid of the naughty word!) he was jumping on my daughter who was screaming but wouldn't get off. I explained calmly why he was there and how long he was staying there and he did it brilliantly. I spoke to him afterwards why are you here? what did you do? what do we say? All the reight answers. Then we hugged, all fine. But he wouldn't move off the step. He started to cry and say m naughty, m naughty, I said no m all finished. and gave him a hug explaining he sat in time out beautifully. and how We are going to have tea and play, but he didn't want to move. I left him for a couple of mins to see if he could help himself. I then went back and asked him to come off the step as we had finished with the step and we are going to have tea.
All was fine after that.
Mum phoned me today saying he doesn't was to go to pre school and what shall she do. He was shouting off to donnas no pre school. I said i'm out at the mo i will meet you there if you have trouble getting him settled. she said no, but i met them anyway as mum had to rush off to work and I didn't want m distressed at pre school. He settled fine and i reasurred him that i would pick him up.
mum said that this morning he was jumping on the bed and she said get off the bed and he stopped and lip quivered and started saying m naughty m naughty.
I told mum that the naughty word has to go. He uses it all the time. He gets it from somewhere. when he gets collected dad says has he been naughty! liek first thing he says.
If M eats a healthy meal and is good dad says well thats unusual, don't know whats wrong with him.
Well got some stickers today and was gonna make some behaviour charts, (My son keeps wetting the bed) thought I might make mindee one, what do yyou all think.? Sorry to rush mindee about to wake up.