snowbunny
16-02-2009, 12:57 PM
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The feeholders won't give in, they've been told my the management company that they can't be seen to be treating me differently to others and so they've said I can't childmind. I've written to them, I've met up with them and talked about it but they just don't want to know. Any ideas on what i can do now?? We can't move, we're mortgaged to the hilt and won't be moving for another 5 or so years and we want to start a family before then but we won't be able to if I can't childmind. We'd really struggle to pay childcare fees if we were both working and with childminding we'd be better financially. I'm worn out and so angry :(
My DP says that i should just go ahead with it anyway, we've got permission from our neighbours and they say they back me all the way (I've been asked to look after 2 of the children downstairs, if i get to become a childminder!) so the freeholders wouldn't know about it or anything. The main reason they say no businesses is because of neighbours, disturbing them etc and I think that if my close neighbours aren't bothered by it then what's the problem?
I can't give up, this is something i really want to do but I'm not sure what to do anymore :mad:
x
The feeholders won't give in, they've been told my the management company that they can't be seen to be treating me differently to others and so they've said I can't childmind. I've written to them, I've met up with them and talked about it but they just don't want to know. Any ideas on what i can do now?? We can't move, we're mortgaged to the hilt and won't be moving for another 5 or so years and we want to start a family before then but we won't be able to if I can't childmind. We'd really struggle to pay childcare fees if we were both working and with childminding we'd be better financially. I'm worn out and so angry :(
My DP says that i should just go ahead with it anyway, we've got permission from our neighbours and they say they back me all the way (I've been asked to look after 2 of the children downstairs, if i get to become a childminder!) so the freeholders wouldn't know about it or anything. The main reason they say no businesses is because of neighbours, disturbing them etc and I think that if my close neighbours aren't bothered by it then what's the problem?
I can't give up, this is something i really want to do but I'm not sure what to do anymore :mad:
x