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mumofone
07-01-2016, 10:03 AM
Does anyone have any good strategies or literature they could share for when children say "I can't" a lot? Thank you

mama2three
07-01-2016, 12:28 PM
Children here know early on that we dont say I cant. We say I am trying to..........

mumofone
07-01-2016, 01:56 PM
Children here know early on that we dont say I cant. We say I am trying to..........

Ah that's a good one, I'll teach my mindee to say that....

:-)

moggy
07-01-2016, 02:57 PM
You change it to 'can't yet' and yes, they need to keep trying!

Bumble Beez
07-01-2016, 05:47 PM
Children here know early on that we dont say I cant. We say I am trying to..........

We're the same :thumbsup:

kellib
07-01-2016, 06:18 PM
I have one that's forever saying 'I can't do it'

My rule is they have to try themselves once before they get any help, usually find they can do it and it's just laziness!