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tess1981
08-05-2014, 12:53 PM
The 2 yo that screams my house down and hits and head butted in the past is putting me through my paces today. Had a word with mum saying behaviour needed addressed. We agreed every time she screams etc we will set her in high chair on time out and if she really bad into the cot. Well if I have not been lifting her into or out of high chair today it has been the cot.... my arms ache. My head hurts and I'm turning grumpy. The other 2 yo and her fight a lot especially over toys for weeks I have been saying they are my toys I am being nice sharing them if you don't share I will take them away. So today I TOOK THEN AWAY I had enough of this fighting going on for weeks. Their faces.... don't think they thought I would do it.... going to let them entertain themselves with no resources this afternoon in the hope they will learn a lesson. Fingers crossed.

shortstuff
08-05-2014, 12:54 PM
I hope your persistence pays off

tess1981
08-05-2014, 12:57 PM
I hope so too.. am drained

shortstuff
08-05-2014, 12:58 PM
I can fully relate x stay strong x

tess1981
08-05-2014, 01:13 PM
I have secretly been eating jelly beans today... something I not going to share lol

shortstuff
08-05-2014, 01:17 PM
haha if it helps then fair play x

dolly1985
08-05-2014, 02:46 PM
We've had non stop screaming here!! Argh-a quick bit of choccy is my saviour!!

tess1981
08-05-2014, 02:55 PM
It's still scream central here.... There is no letting up today... ever have one of thethem days you feel like crying and say to a parent I never want your child through my door again because they would drain the ocean :(

Rickers83
08-05-2014, 03:11 PM
Feeling a bit like this today too....

Had a schoolie swing for my dd6 before school because "she annoyed him"
Had another lo 23 months grab my dd2 face and leave a huge scratch mark because she had the toy car he wanted
& now 3'schoolies all constant "he said this, she said that"

Argh!:angry:

Kaybeaa
08-05-2014, 03:11 PM
I took 3 to toddler group today, and all of them screamed. I was sat next to another childminder whose 3 also screamed. We had a joke about how stressful it was. 10 minutes later we looked up and half the parents had left. I felt like chasing after them and saying "try coping with this for more than half an hour!"

tess1981
08-05-2014, 03:22 PM
I took 3 to toddler group today, and all of them screamed. I was sat next to another childminder whose 3 also screamed. We had a joke about how stressful it was. 10 minutes later we looked up and half the parents had left. I felt like chasing after them and saying "try coping with this for more than half an hour!"

Oh poor you lol

mrs robbie williams
08-05-2014, 06:21 PM
ive had a one yr old screamer all day - just having dinner then going to bed as got her again tomoro :(

funemnx
08-05-2014, 07:03 PM
Sometimes when I have this kind of day we go for a nice long drive..... and I eat malteesers! :blush::laughing:

Hoping tomorrow is better for you :thumbsup:

tess1981
08-05-2014, 10:15 PM
Only have one if the two year olds tomorrow and a 1 year old a 3 year old a 5 year old and a 6 year old .. but there will be less fighting tomorrow as the 3 year old is very good and does not fight with the others :)
Not as stressed as I was earlier. I do reiki on the side lines and had a client In this evening so I got a bit of wind down time then... only meant to spend 45 mins on a client got working away and chatting an an hour an 20 mins passed lol

natlou82
09-05-2014, 05:06 AM
Hope you have a much better day today x

tess1981
09-05-2014, 09:20 AM
Hope you have a much better day today x

So far so good.... but poor 1 yo has a very sore bottom and he poops for Ireland!!!!