Topkad84
15-01-2014, 09:23 AM
M sorry all I ever do on here is rant and ask for advice.
I have a five year old boy and his brother that get dropped off at 8am and I take them to school. That's all I have of them.
But the five year old yesterday and today went crazy when his mum dropped him off. He has done it before once in a blue moon. But the last two days he has gone made, mum brings him in or drags him in and puts him in the front room and runs out the door and goes. He then goes mad trying to get out the door (he can now undo the chain) I stand there with my hand on the door asking home to calm down. He then runs up my sofas to get to the window where he punches it. I move him away and try to calm him (this doesn't work). Then today he got all the toys in the play area (prams, trolleys chairs) and threw them everywhere. I also have my own daughter 4 and 3 other kids to contend with this scares them and upsets them.
He then comes up to me and kicks and punches me. So I'm now very cross and tell him very firmly that this is unacceptable behaviour and to go and calm down in the hall.
Eventually after 20 mins all is calm and he turns back to the nice child that I know. And it's time to walk to school. Yesterday when he was lashing out yesterday he hit my daughter in the face with a soft toy.
Today dad came with mum for back up, which was actually useless he was asking his brother to come in and talk to him the poor brother get beaten up enough by his younger brother.
The parents have no boundaries with there children and they literally run riot.
So where do I go from here?
I need to message mum later as I can't have this every morning but I know mum won't really do a lot.
I feel really angry about it. I'm moving in April so won't be having them from then onwards but I feel like giving them up now.
Any suggestions ?
I have a five year old boy and his brother that get dropped off at 8am and I take them to school. That's all I have of them.
But the five year old yesterday and today went crazy when his mum dropped him off. He has done it before once in a blue moon. But the last two days he has gone made, mum brings him in or drags him in and puts him in the front room and runs out the door and goes. He then goes mad trying to get out the door (he can now undo the chain) I stand there with my hand on the door asking home to calm down. He then runs up my sofas to get to the window where he punches it. I move him away and try to calm him (this doesn't work). Then today he got all the toys in the play area (prams, trolleys chairs) and threw them everywhere. I also have my own daughter 4 and 3 other kids to contend with this scares them and upsets them.
He then comes up to me and kicks and punches me. So I'm now very cross and tell him very firmly that this is unacceptable behaviour and to go and calm down in the hall.
Eventually after 20 mins all is calm and he turns back to the nice child that I know. And it's time to walk to school. Yesterday when he was lashing out yesterday he hit my daughter in the face with a soft toy.
Today dad came with mum for back up, which was actually useless he was asking his brother to come in and talk to him the poor brother get beaten up enough by his younger brother.
The parents have no boundaries with there children and they literally run riot.
So where do I go from here?
I need to message mum later as I can't have this every morning but I know mum won't really do a lot.
I feel really angry about it. I'm moving in April so won't be having them from then onwards but I feel like giving them up now.
Any suggestions ?