kimnolan87
03-06-2013, 06:10 PM
Hiya,
I have a LO who was my first mindee......when she started it was arranged that I would have her Wednesday, Thursday and Friday week one and then the following week would be, Thursday, Friday and Saturday.
As she was my first, I agreed and was happy that the parents agreed for LO to just "muck in" with anything we did as a family on Saturdays (just myself and my fiancé at the moment).
At the beginning of May, mum's hours changed at work, as she jobs shares she changed her days to Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. This suited me perfectly as it meant that I had my weekends back and also, all Friday off after the morning school run.
Mum phoned yesterday and asked if I can have LO Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday this week as work phoned her during her holiday and she isn't sure if this is a perm change until she goes in on Wednesday.
I have said I can have LO for the four days this week, but I really don't want to have to give up my Saturdays again, and even more so if it turns out to be four days a week!!!
However, how can I discuss this with mum without risking losing LO?
Help!
Thanks,
Kim x
I have a LO who was my first mindee......when she started it was arranged that I would have her Wednesday, Thursday and Friday week one and then the following week would be, Thursday, Friday and Saturday.
As she was my first, I agreed and was happy that the parents agreed for LO to just "muck in" with anything we did as a family on Saturdays (just myself and my fiancé at the moment).
At the beginning of May, mum's hours changed at work, as she jobs shares she changed her days to Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. This suited me perfectly as it meant that I had my weekends back and also, all Friday off after the morning school run.
Mum phoned yesterday and asked if I can have LO Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday this week as work phoned her during her holiday and she isn't sure if this is a perm change until she goes in on Wednesday.
I have said I can have LO for the four days this week, but I really don't want to have to give up my Saturdays again, and even more so if it turns out to be four days a week!!!
However, how can I discuss this with mum without risking losing LO?
Help!
Thanks,
Kim x