Tinkerbell1979
12-04-2013, 05:27 PM
I look after a 13m old and have had her since 7m old.
Mum always reads DD and writes stuff in it. Mum goes away every few months on work business and Dad never looks in DD, I know this because he doesn't even look in bag as I put things in, tell him and days later its still there. Both parents big worriers, thought mum was bad enough but my god he drives me insane sometimes lol.
Anyway, he drops off T this morning, all normal, nothing said, say goodbye, get DD out and he has written 'noticed a bruise on T's right knee....maybe from frantic crawling......' Well I will say I was pretty upset because of the way it's written, I just don't like the 'maybe'. Spoke to a friend who said he probably doesn't realise how it sounds but its been niggling me all day. Mum back and picked up so I light heartily said 'oh D wrote in diary...' Before I could finish she said 'oh it's probably from crawling' not off or anything but again....i don't know, I just feel a bit funny about it all, so I said 'well we were in the garden the day before, she was crawling everywhere, it could have been a stone' to which she replied 'yes, probably'
Anyway as I said I just feel a bit upset by it, am I being silly? She's my first mindee.
Mum always reads DD and writes stuff in it. Mum goes away every few months on work business and Dad never looks in DD, I know this because he doesn't even look in bag as I put things in, tell him and days later its still there. Both parents big worriers, thought mum was bad enough but my god he drives me insane sometimes lol.
Anyway, he drops off T this morning, all normal, nothing said, say goodbye, get DD out and he has written 'noticed a bruise on T's right knee....maybe from frantic crawling......' Well I will say I was pretty upset because of the way it's written, I just don't like the 'maybe'. Spoke to a friend who said he probably doesn't realise how it sounds but its been niggling me all day. Mum back and picked up so I light heartily said 'oh D wrote in diary...' Before I could finish she said 'oh it's probably from crawling' not off or anything but again....i don't know, I just feel a bit funny about it all, so I said 'well we were in the garden the day before, she was crawling everywhere, it could have been a stone' to which she replied 'yes, probably'
Anyway as I said I just feel a bit upset by it, am I being silly? She's my first mindee.