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Bevbeetle
18-08-2012, 12:51 AM
we have had a horrible year sep last year my mother in law passed away very suddenly my father in law is a acholic he hit the drink bit time my hubby and and his brother couldnt cope was left for me and sis inlaw anyway he s been great till now stopped drinking everything now hes started again we are due to go on holiday tuesday first hol on our own with out our 2 my father in law is poorly but only through drink i have said we are not going near till after our hol we need it so much 2 weeks after my mother in law died my hubby lost his job 2 things were just looking up for us he has new job i very busy are we being selfish?????????????

sandy64
18-08-2012, 05:55 AM
in a word NO youre not being selfish you have both had an awful year now its time to take some you time enjoy your hol together you both so deserve it:)congratulations on hubbys new job and im glad youre busy dont feel guilty have a fab hol:)

Angela234
18-08-2012, 06:42 AM
No, you enjoy your holiday

sophia36
18-08-2012, 07:03 AM
Its not selfish to put yourself 1st from time to time. You need a rest to recharge your batteries and when you get back you will feel more able to be there for your extended family. Go for it:thumbsup:

breezy
18-08-2012, 07:18 AM
No,if you dont have a break you could end up being the ones needing looking after! It's natural to feel guilty but sometimes your own needs come first :)

miffy
18-08-2012, 07:43 AM
No, enjoy your holiday.

Miffy xx

Mummits
18-08-2012, 07:48 AM
No of course you're not being selfish. You desereve a break and it's not as if there's noone else to step up if needed. Enjoy recharging your batteries!

Chimps Childminding
18-08-2012, 07:54 AM
Nope!!! A few days away sounds just what you need!!!! Enjoy xx

jumpinjen
18-08-2012, 09:56 AM
No, you're not, and perhaps it's time for your hubby and his brother to step back up to looking after their dad too now........

Enjoy your holiday, Jen x

The Juggler
18-08-2012, 10:12 PM
no, go and enjoy your hols and you need to step back and let dh and his family deal with FIL. :panic::(