notts
22-06-2012, 09:35 AM
Copied from my post 'simply don't get it' as I don't think people have seen my last comment and could really do with the advice! Thanks in advance.
Copy...
Stupid, stupid, stupid woman (me)
I spoke to a friend of mine, her previous childminder. We were very discreet but became apparent the person who she was talking of was this woman so I explained my situation.
Turns out CM looked after 1 of her boys for 6 months and ended up taking her to small claims court for fees. During that time, she threatened her in front of her Son, saying she wasn't doing her job properly as Mum wanted CM to bath her Son as routine and CM refused. Reported her to Ofsted saying that she wasn't doing paperwork etc (clearly this is all one sided what I'm hearing but I believe it) and when it all came out in the wash turns out for 2 years she had been claiming for child care for BOTH sons.
So it seems she was just after my EY number. And stupid, stupid, stupid me, still hadn't changed my displayed certificate with the number removed.
I'm sure she would have seen it. It's on a notice board in my kitchen. I did leave the room once. But what I can't understand is why take to signing stage if she had the info then? Maybe she didn't and that's still her plan... or was she simply trying to make it look more real.
I feel cheated. I feel my children have been used and all of us cheated in our own home. I feel an idiot for not having removed the number and lazy because I knew I needed to but hadn't been bothered to get the sacnner out yet!!!!
what do I do know guys? how can I make sure she isn't claiming and how long do I give it before I progress with this?
Copy...
Stupid, stupid, stupid woman (me)
I spoke to a friend of mine, her previous childminder. We were very discreet but became apparent the person who she was talking of was this woman so I explained my situation.
Turns out CM looked after 1 of her boys for 6 months and ended up taking her to small claims court for fees. During that time, she threatened her in front of her Son, saying she wasn't doing her job properly as Mum wanted CM to bath her Son as routine and CM refused. Reported her to Ofsted saying that she wasn't doing paperwork etc (clearly this is all one sided what I'm hearing but I believe it) and when it all came out in the wash turns out for 2 years she had been claiming for child care for BOTH sons.
So it seems she was just after my EY number. And stupid, stupid, stupid me, still hadn't changed my displayed certificate with the number removed.
I'm sure she would have seen it. It's on a notice board in my kitchen. I did leave the room once. But what I can't understand is why take to signing stage if she had the info then? Maybe she didn't and that's still her plan... or was she simply trying to make it look more real.
I feel cheated. I feel my children have been used and all of us cheated in our own home. I feel an idiot for not having removed the number and lazy because I knew I needed to but hadn't been bothered to get the sacnner out yet!!!!
what do I do know guys? how can I make sure she isn't claiming and how long do I give it before I progress with this?