muffins
21-05-2012, 07:32 PM
I'm now 11wks (unplanned preganancy but v happy about it) & have planned to tell parents after my 12 wk scan which is next Tues, but am off all week so when they come back the following wk! I will be taking 9mths off from mid Nov.
However the amount of stress this has caused has been huge, I have had little sleep and been so stressed it has come to tears at times! Sorry for the rant ahead!
First family A asked me to have there younger child who attends nursery for one day wk next yr, I said I cant make any decisions that far ahead and they weren't happy with this!
Then school told me last wk they were no longer happy with me driving up to & dropping off/collecting from the office!:panic: Parking is a nightmare and getting 4 pre-schoolers (variation) inc one 6mth old (& buggy) plus 2 schoolies out of car, visit 2 classrooms, back to car all in etc wasn't going to give me time to get to playsch at 9. I tried it a few times & I got to play sch about 9.15ish:(. Plus doing this everyday whilst pregnant would be very stressfull! I told parents of family A & B I was no longer happy to do sch run & gave them 4wks notice, but gave them the option to leave before 4wks up at no charge if they wanted (mainly to make my life easier)!
Family A who spoke to me like :censored: when I told them said this morn they have made other arrangments (clubs) making this wk there last, however would like to come back if things change! They also brought chocs & a plant to say sorry for the way in which they reacted, I still however was glad to them gone!
Family B went straight to the sch and arranged a meeting with the head for this morning! Roll on pick up time they said head had said no go on mornings but compromised and said I could do after sch. They have arranged a club for mornings!
So after all of that I am still to tell them I'm pregnant and will be going on mat leave!:panic: I am also v scared of family A asking to come back esp as both families are best of friends & they will learn of heads decission soon enough, they may even ask me tomorrow & I cant lie!:panic:
:crying::crying::crying:
However the amount of stress this has caused has been huge, I have had little sleep and been so stressed it has come to tears at times! Sorry for the rant ahead!
First family A asked me to have there younger child who attends nursery for one day wk next yr, I said I cant make any decisions that far ahead and they weren't happy with this!
Then school told me last wk they were no longer happy with me driving up to & dropping off/collecting from the office!:panic: Parking is a nightmare and getting 4 pre-schoolers (variation) inc one 6mth old (& buggy) plus 2 schoolies out of car, visit 2 classrooms, back to car all in etc wasn't going to give me time to get to playsch at 9. I tried it a few times & I got to play sch about 9.15ish:(. Plus doing this everyday whilst pregnant would be very stressfull! I told parents of family A & B I was no longer happy to do sch run & gave them 4wks notice, but gave them the option to leave before 4wks up at no charge if they wanted (mainly to make my life easier)!
Family A who spoke to me like :censored: when I told them said this morn they have made other arrangments (clubs) making this wk there last, however would like to come back if things change! They also brought chocs & a plant to say sorry for the way in which they reacted, I still however was glad to them gone!
Family B went straight to the sch and arranged a meeting with the head for this morning! Roll on pick up time they said head had said no go on mornings but compromised and said I could do after sch. They have arranged a club for mornings!
So after all of that I am still to tell them I'm pregnant and will be going on mat leave!:panic: I am also v scared of family A asking to come back esp as both families are best of friends & they will learn of heads decission soon enough, they may even ask me tomorrow & I cant lie!:panic:
:crying::crying::crying: